Quick Guide: The Aftermath of a Friendship With Your Ex
So, I just recently broke off the friendship I had with my ex over Memorial day weekend; and while it hurts me to say that it happened I am actually very much relieved. After we broke up in February, I held onto the memories that we shared while we were together and that was a very dangerous territory. I held on to him so much that I ended up strengthening my feelings for him and falling even deeper in love with him. As my feelings progressed, it got to a point to where I had to confess them to him several months later, aka last week, and long story short we broke into an intense argument about him not understanding what I was asking of him and me just getting more and more frustrated with him. Needless to say, he called me crazy and blocked me. For me, it is always difficult to be friends with a past lover because there is always that chance where your feelings toward them will either grow or shrink and you have to be ready for what occurs after the fall. While I did not expec...